“Community is not just about being together, it’s about being there for each other, lifting one another up, and creating a shared sense of purpose.”
The Refined Awards
**SOLD OUT**
The Refined Awards are unlike any other awards show; this event is to celebrate individuals in the San Diego wedding industry who have worked hard over the past year and have shown dedication and excellence in their work.
We are planning a spectacular event and promise to make it as vibrant, special and industry worthy as possible.
JANUARY 20TH 2025
5:00pm
JULEP VENUE
This is a night you DO NOT want to miss.
Fostering Relationships with Your Clients
Exciting news! Refined is kicking off the year with our very first Café Crawl, and we can’t wait to bring together wedding industry professionals for a fun and relaxed day of networking. It's going to be a fantastic opportunity to connect, chat, and build meaningful relationships.
This is not just another networking event – it’s a chance to step out of the office, get inspired, and make lasting connections with some of the best in the wedding industry. Whether you’re looking to collaborate, share ideas, or just meet new faces, this will be the perfect way to kick off the year on a high note!
MARCH 24TH 2025
TEMECULA
Hotel Hustle: Your Relationship with Local Hotels
Join us for our second Café Crawl of the year, where you can continue to connect, collaborate, and expand your network in a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere. Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting out, this event brings together people from all industries and backgrounds.
This is your ultimate guide to getting on San Diego’s exclusive hotel and venue vendor lists. Join us as we explore the steps to becoming a preferred partner, discuss the benefits of being on these coveted lists, and share insider tips to elevate your business. This event is perfect for wedding and event professionals ready to grow their connections and secure more bookings through strategic partnerships with top venues.
APRIL 29TH 2025
CARTE HOTEL DOWNTOWN SAN DIEGO
401 W Ash St. San Diego, CA 92101
Snap Snap Refined is BACK, and it’s bigger and better than ever! This workshop is a must-attend event for anyone looking to level up their business. You’ll enjoy top-tier education, hands-on content creation, and amazing networking opportunities with like-minded vendors.
We’re setting up some stunning backdrops for you to capture professional photos perfect for social media or your website. Drinks and light bites will be served throughout the evening, so come dressed in your brand’s style—and feel free to bring an extra outfit! It’s the perfect opportunity to treat yourself to great content while connecting with others who share your passion.
JUNE 9TH 2025
BRiCK - LIBERTY STATION
2863 Historic Decatur Rd, San Diego, CA 92106
We know the middle of the year can feel like a whirlwind, which is why our July FAM trip is the perfect opportunity to hit pause, refocus, and recharge. This adventure will take us to stunning Valle de Guadalupe, where we’ll dive into the world of destination weddings, explore breathtaking venues, and share ideas with fellow wedding professionals.
It’s more than just a trip—it’s a chance to build meaningful relationships, discover new inspiration, and prepare for the busy season ahead with a clear mind and fresh perspective. Let’s make this journey one to remember as we connect, collaborate, and grow together!
JULY 20TH-JULY 22ND
VALLE DE GUADALUPE
This is your last chance to slow down and connect before the busy season kicks off! Our third Café Crawl is the perfect opportunity to recharge, share ideas, and build relationships with fellow professionals in a relaxed, supportive environment.
Whether you’re looking to collaborate, find inspiration, or simply enjoy great conversations with like-minded individuals, this gathering will leave you feeling energized and ready to take on the months ahead. Don’t miss out on this perfect pre-season pause!
AUGUST 18TH 2025
SOLANA BEACH
As the wedding season ramps up, it’s easy to put yourself last. Plan ahead to prioritize your well-being this October! Join a community of wedding professionals for a day dedicated to self-care, restoration, and resetting your mind, body, and soul before the holiday season begins. You deserve to take this time for YOU.
OCTOBER 13TH 2025
NORTH COUNTY
Celebrating Success, Setting Intentions
Let’s wrap up the year in style with the last Café Crawl of the year! This special event is a celebration of everything we’ve accomplished together throughout the year and a toast to the connections and collaborations that made it all possible.
Join us for a day filled with gratitude, inspiration, and excitement for what’s to come. Whether you’ve been a part of every Café Crawl or are joining us for the first time, this is your moment to celebrate, reflect, and look ahead to the opportunities of the new year.
DECEMBER 15TH 2025
THE LAFAYETTE HOTEL
“You can tell from the moment you experience a Refined event, that you are welcome, valued & encouraged. Suher’s events have connected me with so many wedding vendors who have helped me book countless weddings as well as with experienced industry professionals who are willing & open to share their expertise & wisdom. ”
Your Accountability Journal is Here
Grab your own Accountability eBook!
This is your sign to get your accountability path on track. A journal for you to enjoy and use throughout the year. One place you can keep track of your priorities no matter what they are. From health, career, personal goals and passions, you can use this journal to pinpoint what works best for you.
BUT the coolest part is, this journal will follow you through your refined Membership and we will be reviewing your details as we continue throughout the year. Call it your very own Accountability Group of Creatives.
THAT’S US and we are excited to be your hype community!.
